Moods swings with summer onslaught....

It's been long time, since I did pour down my thoughts here. There were a lot of good things, things I did for the first time, things my little daughter did for the first time in life, things to remember for a lifetime, some of the ones we did try to do, but couldn't accomplish. Made a list of things I want to do again with this new year coming in. So, a lot of things gone by, which I surely want to talk about and  share here. But for now, am a little perplexed, about how to move ahead and make things better. 

I have been thinking and trying to understand why some people make life a mess. Why do they unnecessary want to emphasize that life is something very serious and thus you ought to live seriously. That you cannot laugh without a reason. To thrust seriousness upon themselves and their loved ones, with no reason around is the most aghast thing I feel people do. They will find the tiniest of the reasons to get angry, sad and serious. Common' people, this is life and if you try to find mistakes, you will find many a dozen everyday in everything that happens around us. So, if your goal is to find problems and irritants everyday, voila, you are the most successful person in the world. And you will always be, as these things are not going to go away anytime in this lifetime. As SRK says, Agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho to puri kayanat usey tumse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai. I am a firm believer of this for life. Arrey bhaiya, agar tum dukh, pareshani and takleefon wala jeevan hi chahogey to kisi ki kya bisaat tumharey saamney aa jaye aur mukable karey. Woh to tumhein mil ke hi rahega...kyunki puri kaynat tumhein woh deney ki koshish kar rahi hai.

Why, people...why! Life is not yours forever to have. The people in your life are not going to live forever, neither are you. Every day is a gift, live it heartily. Laugh without any reason, it's alright. Laughter therapy health to theek rakhti hi hai....and it also works on the attitude towards life. Live this life fully dude, you never know about what happens tomorrow. Hug your family and friends without any reason. Talk to the person you have been thinking about for last some time but don't call up, just because every time you think of calling, it is too late in the evening. Tell people, that they have acted stupid, behaved in a high handed manner, played below the belt jokes or hurt you badly, but that you still love them and that those things are also part of life and learning's everyday.

Life is never going to be the same tomorrow. It is changing everyday and nothing is permanent. Live it while you can.....this is our responsibility towards whosoever has given us this life, our parents you can say, towards the people who have lived and grown with you. It is your responsibility towards your siblings your family. That's why elders say, we need to learn from kids. They get angry from each other but forget in a few minutes only. They are true from heart and never know how to lie. You abuse them, hit them, punish them, they will still come back to you and love you the same way. They won't remember what went by while you might repent or feel bad of how you behaved. And this is what we need to learn from them, this only one thing. Learn and live it now.

The following song from MunnaBhai MBBS, sung by the sultry Sunidhi Chauhan says it all so beautifully. And in my opinion, we didn't hear the lyrics properly just because the screen actor in this song was so hot.

Cheers......

Yaar zara mahol bana
Har par main utha sadiyon ka maza
jo beet gaya so beet gaya
jo beetna hai vo hans ke bita

Yaar zara mahol bana
har pal main pee bas ek dawa
jee khol ke jee, jee jaan se jee
kuch kam hi sahi par shaan se jee

Dekh le, aakhon main aakhen daal....
seekh le...har pal main jeena yaar
soch le....jeevan ke pal hain char
yaad rakh...marna hai ek baar
marne se pahle jeena........seekh le

dekh le
aakhon main aakhein daal
seekh le

baiyaan.....khushiyon ki thaam ke baiyaan
gam ki marod kalaiyaan
gam ka yaaron gam mat karna
chhod de ab to har pal marna
marne se pahle jeena
seekh le

dekh le
aakhon main aakhen daal
seekh le
har pal main jeena yaar
soch le
jeevan ke pal hain char
yaad rakh
marna hai ek baar
marne se pahle jeena
seekh le

baiyaan.......saanson ki khudh pe daale
baiyaan..........jeevan hai barf ki naiya
naiya pighle haule haule
chahe hans le chahe ro le
marne se pahle jeena
seekh le