Monday, May 7, 2012

सत्यमेव जयते - आमिर खान बने सूत्रधार

He was right in saying, Sunday है, सो लो नौ बजे तक, दस बजे तक, ग्यारह बजे तक...फिर तो मैं आ ही रहा हूँ...आपको जगाने के लिए .......सन्डे के सन्डे..... and he did.

Starting with....

सिर्फ हंगामा खड़ा करना मेरा मकसद नहीं, मेरी कोशिश है की यह सूरत बदलनी चाहिए!
मेरे सीने में नहीं तो तेरे सीने में सही, हो कही भी आग,  लेकिन आग जलनी चाहिए ||

The first episode of Aamir Khan's talk show or whatever it would be know as, definitely was an eye opener for many, including us. I for sure, never knew, many of the things told on this show. How and when did this female foeticide started. And of course, it was a revelation to know that the urban areas are more involved in this organized crime. How, none of the doctors, ever, have been accused of this heinous crime and none have had at least their licenses revoked, leave aside serving the time in penitentiary.

First of all, am sold out to the perspective of Aamir Khan, where by he has chosen to telecast his show on Sunday noon, very daunting. Then he is showing it off on Doordarshan network as well, makes his reach go multifold in comparison to the other shows. So, he is trying to do something, fulfilling his responsibilities towards the society using the talent and position he has in the best possible manner. And still, he wants to make proper business sense, he wants to attain total and undivided attention of idiot box viewers at that time, wants to earn out of this show as well, so as to be able to continue this effort in future. That's a wonderful blend of social initiative with business acumen.

About the details of the show, we were amazed and shocked to know about the two reporters, Mr Shaktawat and Meena jee who traveled for thousands of miles, unearthed 100+ doctors and clinics, who were ready to do the illegal sex determination and abortion for as less as Rs 2000/- only. And the tragedy is, these two have been victimized for the report they made. They have to travel to far flung locations till now for providing witness stand there, while all those doctors still continue practicing.

For us, it was particularly difficult, 'cos our daughter was asking so many questions. In the first break, me and my wife looked at each other to decide, if we want to go down this lane. Our little one had so many questions about it and when we explained to her, what Aamir is primarily talking about, she was like, why do people do it. उनको क्या फरक पड़ता है ? When the Delhi female was narrating her incident, and she said my mother-in-law pushed the cart and said this many times, my daughter was like, what is she saying and who is this m-i-l. And I told her, उन बच्चों की दादी, and she was shell shocked about how is this possible, how can any Dadi do this?

Aamir mentioned about the NGO Snehalaya and the website went down, not able to handle the load. It is back up after more than 20 hours downtime, but that's alright. Last, but not the least, the song "O Ri Chiraiya" by the duo Ram Sampath and Swanand Kirkire was outstanding.....बेहतरीन ...लाजवाब|

We are living in the capital, looking at all the hospital advertisements, showing and talking promptly about the IVF centres they have opened and it seems, that our new generation is not able to do properly, what's natural and are seeking external help for it. I don't yet know if there is a way to make sure the IVF babies are of which sex, but am just hoping, it is not like that.


This was an excellent beginning to the show, am hoping he got the coverage and people's attention that he was seeking. The message delivered to the masses in the best possible manner using the best medium of current times. He touched our heart, proclaiming from the beginning "Dil pe lagegi, tabhi baat banegi".

My humble salute to Aamir Khan for this. You have touched the right cords buddy ....you rock! And we are looking forward to the rest of the 15 episodes in this first edition.

Cheers......




Note - Do SMS Y to 5782711 - to agree that Rajashtan state government should solve the female foeticide cases in a combined manner in a fast track court.

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Moods swings with summer onslaught....

It's been long time, since I did pour down my thoughts here. There were a lot of good things, things I did for the first time, things my little daughter did for the first time in life, things to remember for a lifetime, some of the ones we did try to do, but couldn't accomplish. Made a list of things I want to do again with this new year coming in. So, a lot of things gone by, which I surely want to talk about and  share here. But for now, am a little perplexed, about how to move ahead and make things better. 

I have been thinking and trying to understand why some people make life a mess. Why do they unnecessary want to emphasize that life is something very serious and thus you ought to live seriously. That you cannot laugh without a reason. To thrust seriousness upon themselves and their loved ones, with no reason around is the most aghast thing I feel people do. They will find the tiniest of the reasons to get angry, sad and serious. Common' people, this is life and if you try to find mistakes, you will find many a dozen everyday in everything that happens around us. So, if your goal is to find problems and irritants everyday, voila, you are the most successful person in the world. And you will always be, as these things are not going to go away anytime in this lifetime. As SRK says, Agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho to puri kayanat usey tumse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai. I am a firm believer of this for life. Arrey bhaiya, agar tum dukh, pareshani and takleefon wala jeevan hi chahogey to kisi ki kya bisaat tumharey saamney aa jaye aur mukable karey. Woh to tumhein mil ke hi rahega...kyunki puri kaynat tumhein woh deney ki koshish kar rahi hai.

Why, people...why! Life is not yours forever to have. The people in your life are not going to live forever, neither are you. Every day is a gift, live it heartily. Laugh without any reason, it's alright. Laughter therapy health to theek rakhti hi hai....and it also works on the attitude towards life. Live this life fully dude, you never know about what happens tomorrow. Hug your family and friends without any reason. Talk to the person you have been thinking about for last some time but don't call up, just because every time you think of calling, it is too late in the evening. Tell people, that they have acted stupid, behaved in a high handed manner, played below the belt jokes or hurt you badly, but that you still love them and that those things are also part of life and learning's everyday.

Life is never going to be the same tomorrow. It is changing everyday and nothing is permanent. Live it while you can.....this is our responsibility towards whosoever has given us this life, our parents you can say, towards the people who have lived and grown with you. It is your responsibility towards your siblings your family. That's why elders say, we need to learn from kids. They get angry from each other but forget in a few minutes only. They are true from heart and never know how to lie. You abuse them, hit them, punish them, they will still come back to you and love you the same way. They won't remember what went by while you might repent or feel bad of how you behaved. And this is what we need to learn from them, this only one thing. Learn and live it now.

The following song from MunnaBhai MBBS, sung by the sultry Sunidhi Chauhan says it all so beautifully. And in my opinion, we didn't hear the lyrics properly just because the screen actor in this song was so hot.

Cheers......

Yaar zara mahol bana
Har par main utha sadiyon ka maza
jo beet gaya so beet gaya
jo beetna hai vo hans ke bita

Yaar zara mahol bana
har pal main pee bas ek dawa
jee khol ke jee, jee jaan se jee
kuch kam hi sahi par shaan se jee

Dekh le, aakhon main aakhen daal....

seekh le...har pal main jeena yaar
soch le....jeevan ke pal hain char
yaad rakh...marna hai ek baar
marne se pahle jeena........seekh le

dekh le
aakhon main aakhein daal
seekh le

baiyaan.....khushiyon ki thaam ke baiyaan
gam ki marod kalaiyaan
gam ka yaaron gam mat karna
chhod de ab to har pal marna
marne se pahle jeena
seekh le

dekh le
aakhon main aakhen daal
seekh le
har pal main jeena yaar
soch le
jeevan ke pal hain char
yaad rakh
marna hai ek baar
marne se pahle jeena
seekh le

baiyaan.......saanson ki khudh pe daale
baiyaan..........jeevan hai barf ki naiya
naiya pighle haule haule
chahe hans le chahe ro le

marne se pahle jeena
seekh le